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Stuck

Okay, there was this guy that I really liked a lot! We had a long distance relationship but I trusted him with all my heart! Then one of his friends told me that he had cheated on me. I didn't believe it, not only becuase I trusted my boyfriend so much, but becuase I had caught the guy who told me in a lot of lies before. Then I was proved wrong. I was showed a bunch of pictures, concluding the fact that he cheated on me A LOT! There was another problem with our relationship too... he tended to have a bad temper and hit me sometimes when I said the wrong thing or made him mad. But was tried to work around that and figured after awhile he would stop, or I would talk to him about it. He finally told me that he loves me (which I wanted to say it back to him so bad for a long time) but then 2 weeks later I found out he cheated a lot and did the right thing and broke up with him. Then he came to me with a bunch of apologies and took me out one night and I had a lot of fun and was reminded of how much I loved him, so I gave him another chance. It didnt work. I had to break up with him again, this time cuz my friends found out about the hitting. He told me not to tell anyone, but I did finally and he found out. He told me before if I did tell anyone would come beat me up. He did. So after 4 months, it is finally over. But its hard! I know he was a creep, I know he hurt me, not only physically but mentally, and I know he doesnt deserve me, but i'm stuck on him! I miss him! I dont know why! I keep asking myself that, but I cant figure it out! I want to get over him, but nothing is working!!


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josh
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Ok first of all this guy is sc*m of the earth. Any guy that would sink so low as to hit a gurl doesnt deserve to have a gurlfriends what so ever. You are ALOT better off without him and I congradulate you on breaking up with him. I know it is hard to get over him but you can do it. Do things to get your mind off of him. You dont need to sit and miss him because what he done to you was wrong and you should of never had to go threw that. You are a much better person than him and you do deserve better and I promise you that there is someone out there for you. You just have to keep your head up high and look. Dont dwell on the past. Look into the future
 
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I think you are just lonely right now, and with relationships we tend to remember the good more than the bad. This is what seems to have sent you back to him the first time. You are right to leave him. You need to be satisfied with yourself and just enjoy your time to be alone and with friends before you find another guy. So, hang in there, I think you miss the presence of a man, and what you think this guy was, not what he is, and with time that will fade.
 
christina
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I feel u on this one too, I am in basiclly the same position as you and I can really sympathize with u on tryin to leave him. people keep sayin to go out and do other things but there is always something there that reminds you of him. I really understand how you feel but you just have to keep your head up and know what you did was right!
 
Brittany
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u miss him b/c of all yalls good memories..i missed my boyfriend that was like that...b/c I couldnt believe that he hurt mewhen I knew he did..i still couldnt get over the fact that he was a creep! I missed him so much until one day I met this guy that made me relize that my ex was jus a waste n that I deserved better n thats when I relized it..its gonna take a while to get over him...but as time comes u will get over him n u will find a great guy that wont be a creep!
 
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wat a jerk he hits u!! and u miss him oh pleaz u need to keep your head up high. some guy up there is looking 4 a gurl like u
 


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