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Not a clue what to do!

Hey, well I suppose that all of you have probably been in situations somewhat the same so I decided to share mine with all of you and let me know what you would do.
I have this friend Named bobby, we have been really close friends for 2 years now, we have always had a connection I believe, He had a girlfriend named Heather, she was a really close friend of mine as well. I knew they loved each other and I never ever thought of coming between it, but ive always loved him, because it would be impossible not to love such a great guy. but I never ever told anyone cause I didnt think it was right, as much as I love him I couldnt ever see us being more then friends. I always felt it back but I was never ever sure... Him and heather split up about a month ago and they still kind of fooled around and whatnot but heather was sick of him. Bob moved a while back to this place 15minutes from where I live so I never got to see the 2 of them that often, but bob had family and friends here so he always was down on the weekends. so anyways one night me , bob and my friend caity were all at bob's cousin's house bubba's. and bob was pretty drunk and he was passed out on the bed , we finally got him up and he wasnt so drunk anymore... couple hours later caity left and I stayed. Bubba fell asleep and it was just me and bobby talking. He started to say weird things to me, He told me that he loved me for so long, and that since heather was the one who took his virginity he really wanted me to be the one who did, and he said alot of things and then kissed me. We made out for a little while and I went home. The next day he wouldnt call me, speak to me or anything and left early to go home. The next thing ya know I found out that he has been shooting off saying he never meant anything he said to me and I kissed him first , makin me look like the fool. And what hurt the most was I never wanted anything more of out it because I knew it would ruin our friendship. but I cant understand why he is telling everybody things that arent true. I called up heather and told her what happened cause I didnt want her to be upset and she had the right to know, and she told me that bob had told her but never told her all of it and lied. she also told me that for the last year bob , was saying alot of stuff about me the odd time shooting off saying im tryin to get with him and sh*t all the time, considering all ive ever done was help him and heather get back together when they had problems. if anyone could help me figure out what is goin on please gimme some advise cause I seriously need it. IS he saying all these things cause he doesnt want to admit he really truly cares about me cause hes scared what will happen? I have no clue what to think anymore, and I dont kno w how to act around him after all the awful things he was saying about me to make me look like the fool , somebody plzz help me



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Christie
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Hey Girl..Obviosly this guy needs a big talkin to..Maybe you should talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel about him..and how much you hate him sayin things about you...I think you should try not to let things get to you so much..A guy that likes a girl wouldnt or shouldnt talk like that about that person..maybe he gets a kick out of it or something..ya know to make him look cool..I think you should stay strong and brave and tell him EVERYTHING!!If you let it keep goin like this then things might get out of hand and hurt even more...Really girl you can do better..it jus takes a little conversation and if he doesnt get it or doesnt agree then forget it..he doesnt need to act like that..jus try gettin around and tellin him how you feel..k and if he's jus playin around then tell him you don't like it..and if he gets mad or somethin then he really aint much of a friend..that's when you tell him you gotta let him go..K well I hope it all works out if anything happens let me know..k
 
anjz
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you know what if I will be in that situation....I slap his face...how could he he do that to you....he stripped your dignity, girl.....thatb kind of guy needs a lot of playing to do...his a liar and stupid....for me..
You better TALK to him...have a heart to heart talk to him....you better tell him what you have felt...dissapoinment, anger and etc...coz if ever im in your shoe I will slap his face....but if ever your not meant for each other you better let him go....even if it's hurts..
 


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