look im only 14 and i have already lost my virginity. I regret with a passion. I would strongly advise you to tell her that she shouldn't have sex at such a young age and if she does make sure she's in love. And even if that love is hard to find so make sure it's treal. With love keep me posted Courtney marie

i was about 15 when i lost mine and i REGRET it more then anything. I was in love too when i lost it and i still love that guy and we are still together, but we haven't had sex since then (its been a year) because we both knew we weren't prepared. We are both waiting for a long time more.

Kaitlin Hey i'm a senior a guy unlike all these others and i believe that its alot better to wait. You need to talk to her seriously b/c its a big thing. i mean the feeling it good yes, but the feeling of knowing that your first time was with the one your really love...Theres no better feeling than that, and not many people now have that chance so you and your friend think about that and make the right decision. The decison that you want regret.

hey well i read your story and wow i remeber when i first had sex i was 15 and i was in love let me tell you but what was so funny one week later we broke up i was heart broken i hated myself but after that time i figured what the hay ive did it once why not with this guy right wrong i regret it everyday i wish i would have waited till marriage think about it ur honeymoon isnt speciall now and you are made out to be well not a good person i think you should explain to your friend that not every guy wants that and she propably is feeling pressure that is why she changes the subject everytime the guys she dates might be expecting that from her let her know to choose the ppl she dates wisly and no peer presure is too much to over come good luck eventually she will understand

Hey ,
I am thinking your friend is really confused on what to do. I think she really just wants to be like everyone else. Thats not what she really wants to do . I am 15 and I have lost my virginity and I still am not sure if I wanted to do it. The fact is if you friend gets mad at you or is threatening you because you bring that subject up ,I don't think she realizes your concearn for her. YOu need to sit her down and explain to her what can and may happen.I think there are more than enough examples on this page to help back you up. Thats all I have to say. I hope it helps some!?

Your friend sounds like she is really confused about somethings. Im 15 and I have been dating my gurlfriend for almost 6 months now and I know that me and her and no where close to being ready to have sex. You cant meet someone one week and have sex with them the next. Sex is something that should be enjoyed with the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. I have friends at school that have lost their virginity and they have said it was the biggest mistake of their lives. Tell your friend that she really needs to rethink the whole subject and find someone he is looking to love and not just have a good time with.

Ok.. first of all these people who have already left comments i'm kinda upset about because just to know people my age lost their virginity! I would NEVER even think about it! I'm a good SOLID christian. you are suppose to wait til after marriage. it's so sad to see these people go through this. Tell yur friend to get to know the Lord if not already and if she says she's a "christian" then why on earth would she be doing this junk! that makes me so mad when people say they are but don't act like it! I love the Lord with everything i've got! it's good your a christian and I hope your friend makes the right decision on not doing it! Is she truly in love? if so, she can wait! i've made myself a promise not to date for awhile b/c what's the point of dating now since i'm only a sophmore and i'm not gonna marry anybody now anyways! it's pointless! but keep close to God and tell your friend your opinion - it's for her own good!

okay wow.. I dont understand is how everyone can be INLOVE at such a young age. thats crazy. I dont think you can be "inlove" and have sex at this age. she isnt aware of all the outcomes there is. not only hurting herself but she is also hurting you and her family. sex..i think should be done after marriage or atleast until u are an adult and are inlove. thats the good party about sex is love. if there is no love then how can u enjoy it. knowing that u spent it with the person who u love and prolly want to spend the rest of your life with is just well no words can describe it. im a virgin and the thought of having sex right now isnt for me. actually I havent even kissed anyone yet. im waiting for the right person to kiss. everyone thiks that a kiss isnt a big deal but it is to me. its a memory that will never be forgotten and sex is too. by telling her how u feel is being a good friend like how everyone is saying. instead of saying approaching it as "its gonna reuin our friendship" ask her why she wants to have sex. why she feels that its important. I think that her having sex is keeping the boys around and she feels like she has to give her self like that to him. by doing that they arent respecting not only her emotions but her body too. just follow your heart and do what you think is best. no advice from us can tell you what to do. if u have god by your side anything can happen.

I have a friend who has lost her virginity already, shes only 15. I want to tell her its a stupid idea but some how I not strong enough. I think you should tell ur friend what youre feeling. she might need u right now, to tell her its not ok.
Just an idea.

I am 13 and I am not a virgin. I lost my virginity when I was just 12 and I D0 N0T regret it. I dont belive religion has to do anything with the feeling you have in your body about when your ready to have sex I mean does the bible say when your aloud to fall in love too? it depends on the person N0T on the age. but I was in love and still do have feelings for the boy so if shes gona do it make sure she REALLY cares for him

I think your friend is making a huge mistake I just lost my virginity and im only 13! I wasnt ready and regret that ive done that. the boy told me he loved me and we were together for two months but he left me after we had sex so he didnt really love me

I dont know about everyone else but to me sex its really that big of a deal. I am 17 years old and im a virgin, but a very PROUD virgin. I never understood why sex was so over rated. I mean I do want to do it one day but I was always taught that your body is your temple and that you cant just let people abuse it. My virginity is very important to me, and it is my most prized possesion and I have worked very hard to keep it. I want my first time to be with someone who loves me for me not for whats between my legs. Now I know all guys have a one track mind, but I still have that hope that I will meet my special someone who will wait for me and who deserves this special gift... maybe its just me but I dont want to loose something that ive worked so hard to keep. ~*~Chula~*~

Stand by your beliefs even when she doesn't. I am a christian as well and for one just lead by example stay in God's word, pray and ask for God's guidance.

Kaitlin,
I'm also a christian and I believe that we should wait until marriage to have sex. It's a beautiful thing that God ceated between a husband and a wife. Explain to your friend that what she is doing is wrong and that there are alot of consequences that go along with premarital sex such as pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. She is definately too young to know what love really is. Pray for God's guidance and I will pray for you both too. I hope she makes the right decision and your friendship doesn't end because of this. Take care!

kaitlin
im in the same dilemma as ur friend.im 15 years old and I want to have sex badly. I really and truly feel that I can handle the feelings that go with losing ur virginity at such a young age. I look at sex from a recreational point of view and I dont think you have to be in love with the person you do it with. but I prize my virginity and I take great pride in it. I cannot decided whether or not I want to lose my virginity for a few cheap thrills or just let lose and have some fun

hey, im 16 and me and my gf had sex for the first time when she was just 15 1/2 but we had been going out for 6 months. we are still going out, almost a year now, and I certainly dont regret it but you should definately wait till you love and trust the person.

hey im fifteen years old and I lost mine when I was 14 and I dont regret it at all. I was in love, and I took a long time to think about if I was ready or not. it was safe and we didnt feel the need to make a big deal out of it. I guess it depends on waht ur expecting and how mature you are. I grew up pretty fast and I felt like I was ready. people say that I should regret it or that I must feel terrible or hate myself. but im fine and I dont regret it at all, im glad I did it. even though my parents found out and I gotin trouble istill wouldnt change things if I could.

hey I just turned 15 eight days ago on the 22 , I just lost my virginity on th 27th I do not regret it at all I think it all depends on when someone is ready to and when someone is not , obviouesly a 10 shouldnt be ready too, and from what I have experienced most people lose it before they graduate high school, if not, in college, but theres those few who really desire to lose it to someone they have married and that should be fine with them we all have to respect others opinions and if someone is REALLY ready and they know it themselves I don't think they should need re*ssurance from someone else if they are THAT confident about it.

oh..damn..come on peepos...dat ish way tew young mann

ok i waited intill i was 18 before i first had sex and i'm 22 and i've only been with one dude my entire life intill now that i am single i think you should wait...honestly

i waz 16 when i lost my virginty
i dont reallii regret it
onlii thin i regret is lettin my parents find out they found out from my brother who found out when he peaked in a onversation i waz having an he told on me an my parents treated me very bad after that they alle dme very mean names an did very mean things but i dont regret losing it cause everything happens for a reason an i did an still love the person an we are together but there was a time we broke up i was so sad but i never regreted it

ok, heres some shit you young kids have to learn.
youre not in love!!! i hate seeing these little kids walking around and saying theyre in love when theyre not! if you want true love have kids get a job stick around and take care of the family!
that is fucking love!
not your little omg he got me roses bullshit love.