honestly there is no way to stop ur feelings.just work with those feelings.its hard to but i think its posible. good luck with him

to tell you the truth i dont know i have the same problem.... except i have known this guy since i was 3

You can never change how you feel but if he's a true friend you can tell him how you feel. If anything will change it'll change for the better. Famous quote: It's better to have love and lost than not to love at all. Don't spend the rest of your life wondering what if! No one can measure up to that even if you can't tell him, been there and still paying for it 8 years later!!

listen!..you tell him..he deserves to know..im in the same boat your in.i told my best friend this saturday..it hasn't changed anything between us so far.although things have been a little different from what they used to be. but it's only been about 4days..he told me he's getting his thoughts together. and that i shouldn't worry cause nothings gonna change.friendship wise.. i have more respect for him know then i ever thought i could have for a person..tell him!!he's your friend,your buddy, and the person you run to when you need a shoulder or just an ear.. i wish you the best of luck!...

hey I know how you feel! I have really REALLY strong feelings for a close guy friend of mine! but when my girl friend asked him me or my best friend, he said he couldnt choose, he would never date either! :( i'm completely in love with him.... what do I do? it's so hard when all I think of and want is him. but my brother does say seize chances, as he didnt and regretted it because his guy buddy beat him to it and him and his gf are still together 5 years later!