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I would love to hear your advice

Okay I dated my ex b/f for a year and 9 months and we were completely in love...but our relationship was doomed from the beiginning.... I have known him since I waslittle and in grade 9 he told me he wanted to be with me but I never looked at him as anything more than a friend....then months later ne dated one of my friends a year later we started talking and I realized I really did have feelings for him so we started dating in grade 11 but my friend wasn't over him so we decided to kinda hide it for awhile...well I did he never wanted to....he bugged me all the time he wanted to show everyone how much he loved me...and then awhile before we broke up I agreed and it was like he didn't want to tell everyone anymore... I mean so people knew the selected people we told but it was obvious... I mean it's kinda hard to hide the way you feel about someone... So anyways we started agrueing alot and he finally said he thought we were getting too serious for eachother and he broke up with me....and I juts let him go.....its been almost 7 months and its almost like I can't be with any other guy b/c I want to be with him so bad...and we are still attracted to eachother b.c we still fool around from time to time and that was like the worst thing I could have ever done b.c now I will always just be the girl on the side to him....but I just can't let go... if anyone has any advice I would love to hear it.

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Janet
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well i really think that you should just try to get over him because then he is just a jack*ss he is not worth it just like try to find some other guy trust me it always works i've been there so then just try to get over him he is just like so not worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
lucy
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well,if u really love that guy u must fight for it than to end up without a fight for ur love 'coz at the end u will regret on it...just like what happend to me...but if it is not workin' out so...that's the time u must move on to ur life...maybe he's not the right guy for you or maybe the lord will find a way to meet ur Mr.Right!!! God Bless You!!!
 
lupe
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well im in your same situation, well similar , and its so hard to get over somebody you love as time passes by . especially if its your firstlove. its been over a year and im still in love with my first love and it doesnt seem to go away even if i try to go out with different guys or just start a new relationship. the advice i have for you is to try to tell him how you really feel and try to get all your doubts answered. if he tells you that things between you and him will never work out then i suggest you keep him as a friend than not having him around at all. trust me just leave all the bull s@#t behind and if you do get a second chance then try to make the best out of it and try not to argue a lot like you did previous, i mean dont argue for little things that you know are dumb because thats what messes up a relationship . having a serious relationship reqiures you to actually understand what it takes to be in one, and just try to make yourself happy and your partner. good luck!!!!!!
 
Julie
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maybe its because you made his *ss wait to long now it sucks for you because he probably moved on and maybe you should too because theres a lot of guys out there.
 
jrwilliams
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i understand exactly how u feel for him, but the longer you keep putting urself throught this the more its going 2 cripple you . . . . u say u love him, but if hes just coming 2 you when its convienient for him then he never really loved you just do you and him a big favor and cut if off. . . even if it means cutting all communications between yall . . . it will all work out for the best
 


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