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Opinions teenagers please

Submitted by Ray
E-mail: morningstar4352@yahoo.com


Ok I'm gonna try my best to keep this short and simple...
If you are 16 years old and things are going on at home that shouldn't be with a step dad what do you do?
Such as abuse verbal all kinds of abuse? If you did the right thing and talked to your mom already and she confronted him and he
lied and basically she chose him over her own daughter then what?
He continuously is an *sshole in every way.
Now I want to leave home with my fiance whom is older and could care for me but also im a
minor I can't call cops step had an awesome little girl with my mom who cries every day
when he leaves for work
I don't want to screw up that or take her father away.
I dont have a dad I know what it feels like.
I've taken all this for three years now so I cant wait til im 18 by
that time he will probably break me.
I guess what I'm trying to ask is what would you other girls do
I'm never allowed out of the house I have to sneak out.
I've done nothing to deserve this
I have staright as in school and the house is always clean.
I'm now homeschooled so I don't get to see my friends,
then again there really not friends just aquaintences.
I'm trying to do the right thing but I'm beginning to understand there is no right in this
I have to do right for myself and follow my heart...
Basically what all you guys told me or expect is me to stay here and take it.
Well eventually it will break me and I cant let that happen.
I've talked to mom on more than one occasion.
She just refuses to talk about it anymore.
I even fight with her he has my mom wrapped around his finger
anything he says goes.
How can he go to counseling if he wont even admit to anything he
says or does?
I hate him he taught me how to hate I never felt so much anger and hate towards someone in my life I need more opinions teenagers.
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I dont no how much help i can be but i understand how you feel. Do not keep that anger inside yourself or else it will build up. Have you ever tried getting poffesional help...im not sayin you need help i understand your steppdad is the one who needs the help but maybe you can get better advice from someone like a councellor,child line etc...by law they have to keep everything secret. It took me so long to stop my dad from getting to me he never abused me physically but he played mind games n made me so fragile. maybe your mum knows deep down what you are telling her is true and she is too scared to admitt it. Maybe she feels trapped or scared,Maybe not though i dont know you or anything.You are not alone though many people go through what you have to cope with, its not easy but with help it can be resolved. you need to try and get support form anyone you can, rmeber your not alone and when if you feel so weak like you feel your gonna break , dont let him win because he is the weaker one seeing that your only 16 and he is a grown man and treats you like this. no one deserves this. i hope this was some sort of help to you, AShley-Ann, 15, Xx
 
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listen... i have a stepdad too and my mom was the exact same way. i can totally relate to you. i hated him with all my heart. and i know how it feels to not have a father and you feel loyal to your little stepsister even though you want to protect her from him. have you ever tried talking to him? just say, hey you cant treat me like a child because youre not. tell him if he doesnt stop this, hes gonna get caught. just because someone doesnt admit to something doesnt mean it's not there. and just hold on tight, as hard as it is, it will get better. three years ago when they married i ran away. dont do that. when you're screaming and you want to explode, go out to mcdonalds, get a mcflurry, and come straight home and get a good night sleep. i promide it helps. just dont get yourself hurt and dont even think about doing anything stupid like cutting or drugs or anything. just stick in there and youll be alright.
 
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I no wat your going through parents need to give us more leeway my mum doesnt realy let me out the house eather you need to confront your mum and tell her your unhappy with the way your step father is treating you its unfair talk to a teachure a friend another family member dont suffer in silence speak out and get hurt befor some thing happends to you xxx
 
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I no wat your going through parents need to give us more leeway my mum doesnt realy let me out the house eather you need to confront your mum and tell her your unhappy with the way your step father is treating you its unfair talk to a teachure a friend another family member dont suffer in silence speak out and get heardbefor some thing happends to you xxx
 
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I no wat your going through parents need to give us more leeway my mum doesnt realy let me out the house eather you need to confront your mum and tell her your unhappy with the way your step father is treating you its unfair talk to a teachure a friend another family member dont suffer in silence speak out and get heardbefor some thing happends to you xxx
 


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