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I need your opinion teenagers

Submitted by R
E-mail: morningstar4352@yahoo.com


Ok I'm gonna try my best to keep this short and simple..
If you are 16 years old and things are going on at home that shouldn't be with a step dad what do you do?
Such as abuse verbal all kinds of abuse? If you did the right thing and talked to your mom already and she confronted him and he lied and basically she chose him over her own daughter then what?
He continuously is an asshole in every way.
Now I want to leave home with my fiance whom is older and could care for me but also im a minor I can't call cops step had an awesome little girl with my mom who cries every day when he leaves for work
I don't want to screw up that or take her father away.
I dont have a dad I know what it feels like.
I've taken all this for three years now so I cant wait til im 18 by
that time he will probably break me.
I guess what I'm trying to ask is what would you other girls do
I'm never allowed out of the house I have to sneak out.
I've done nothing to deserve this
I have staright as in school and the house is always clean.
I'm now homeschooled so I don't get to see my friends,
then again there really not friends just aquaintences.
I'm trying to do the right thing but I'm beginning to understand there is no right in this I have to do right for myself and follow my heart...
Basically what all you guys told me or expect is me to stay here and take it.
Well eventually it will break me and I cant let that happen.
I've talked to mom on more than one occasion.
She just refuses to talk about it anymore.
I even fight with her he has my mom wrapped around his finger
anything he says goes.
How can he go to counseling if he wont even admit to anything he
says or does?
I hate him he taught me how to hate I never felt so much anger and hate towards someone in my life I need more opinions teenagers
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Deedee
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You should sneak out the house, and go see an older adult, like a counselor, Police, or someone who is older and who would listen, that's what i do. it works!
 
Candi
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hey
girly you are in a bind but i really would not stay in that house i would not be able to be with a mother who chose a guy over flesh an blood do you have any realitives you can go stay with like aunt uncle granny etc. or there isa this thing you can do when you turn 15 which your now able to do i forgot the name im really sorry but basically its where you can leave your parnets with court permission an live on your own an oh i know im not 16 but i am 17 an im really sorry to hear bout all that i have not got a father either and its hard sometimes but i deal with it but if ya need just write me ok
 
Sam
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don't stay there don't even think twice about it.
 
Steph
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Gurl~ U need to just leave Trust Me just walk out and leave and do yourself a favor and go to a foster home b cuz that's the best way to go in your situation i am 15 almost 16 and have basically been on my own since 13 years old it's hard and it does suck but i don't even live with them anymore i ran away and it is the best thing i ever did for myself.i live with my friends now and i love it. so if i was you i would leave and go stay somewhere or put yourself in a foster home. Good Luck 2 Ya!!
 
Ashleigh
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HAY I AM KINDA IN THE SAME SITUATION MY STEP DAD DOESN'T HIT ME OR ANYTHING BUT HE SAYS SOME PERVERTED THINGS LIKE "I DONE GOT YOUR MOM, I'M GETTIN YOU NEXT" SO I KINDA KNOW HOW YOU FELL.MY OLDER BROTHER AND YOUNGER SISTER HAVE ALREADY MOVED OUT BECAUSE OF HIM MY MOM JUST DONT SEE IT.I CANT CALL THE COPS CAUSE HE IS GOOD WITH THE COPS SO HE DONT GET IN TROUBLE WRITE BACK I FEEL FORYOU
 
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HAY I AM KINDA IN THE SAME SITUATION MY STEP DAD DOESN'T HIT ME OR ANYTHING BUT HE SAYS SOME PERVERTED THINGS LIKE "I DONE GOT YOUR MOM, I'M GETTIN YOU NEXT" SO I KINDA KNOW HOW YOU FELL.MY OLDER BROTHER AND YOUNGER SISTER HAVE ALREADY MOVED OUT BECAUSE OF HIM, MY MOM JUST DONT SEE IT BUT IM THE NEXT TO GO.I CANT CALL THE COPS CAUSE HE IS GOOD WITH THE COPS SO HE DONT GET IN TROUBLE WRITE BACK I FEEL FOR YOU
 
ray
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yep I know sexually and verbally abusive is wrong and he should die for it! Im sick of it I have to leave and I have a guy that cares and loves me enough who was willing to wait years for me... until he found out about my homelife. Even then though he said im not gonna force u out of your home he respects me im fortunate to find a guy like him. Thanks for all your help guys and gals keep writing
 
priscilla
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Hey
Chica just keep ur chin up ur mom is all into this guy just leave. Go to a relitives house or something cause what he is doing is wrong. The best for u to do is just leave cause youll feel much better cause u know i aint got a dad either but u learn to deal with it maybe ur mom may cange some day but if not just go move somewhere else cause all ur gonna do there is struggle and just keep ur head up alright believe me when i say things do get better eventally just believe. Hope u do better
 
linda
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Hey girl jus leave and be with someone who cares bout you who cares about age im with a guy that is older than me and i would never let anyone take him away
 
maria
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if u fights with you, fight back. my step dad is a f*ckin *sshole and he thinks he can take me....i almost kicked his *ss 5 times and he gave up....i really know how u feel, i was in that situation last year except it was sexually
 
Aimee
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girl you need to keep telling your mom what is happening and if it keeps happening and you keep telling her she will find out the truth its wrong for her to take his side and not belive you.
 


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