I think you should not go for him.He has other children.He probably said he loved them two just like he is saying to you and look how that ended up.You might love him and he might love you but if he has all that he is obviously not worth it.Atleast frommy point of view

Well, take my advice; since I'm a man and I know these things. First of all, he doesn't love you. He probably doesn't know what love is, love is something so much greater than just words or having sex. Love is everything, your past, present, and your future...for all these things, both of your vision must come as one. Both of you must be willing to sacrifice everything to become ONE...because love is blind,you must take my advice...or you may end up as those unwanted mothers of his...please don't become a victim of his. Those babies deserves a father...and what does he do, he bail out on them...and also bail out on the women (he claimed that he once love)...to do the right thing...tell him to take responsibility for his action and help his babies and their mothers...they need him more than you...it is the right thing to do. Love is hard to find...but love will come to you again...listen to me...I'm a pschology major and minor in laws student at Harvard...if you want we could get together...and discuss this throughly.