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Valentines - frustrated, how do I get over

Submitted by Roxy

Hi.. for anyone who cares to read, this is my problem. i am only 15, to some it seems so young, but i am longing for this one boy who seams untouchable. Ive had an average amount of dating experience for my age, but not much of caurse(i am still only 15),so has he. we go to different schools but my best friend is in his class. He is goodlooking, athletic and has a great sense of humour-what a catch-and i don't think myself of all that(one of my problems).He is a very flurtatious guy, like most of the guys i kno. He liked me in the past,i liked him back. and one night we kissed. but we had not seen eachother for a while after that. not that we didnt want to. although when we did it felt awkward.. but were busy, or doing different things at different times. mostly he plays on 2 hockey teams and its hard to do anything at all. ~My best friend has been bouncing like a pingpong ball from guy to guy~so lately i've been feeling lonely , although i haven't made a great effort of putting myself out there. So i as "that guy" lately if he was still interested in me (because of caurse i never got over him). unfortunatly*his responce was "only as a freind". (God i hate that line!). He is still very flurtatious as if nothing happened at all. I've tried maybe not talking to him, and ignoring the situation to c if i'll get over it. but it hasent been working since i just can't pull myself away. and now every time i talk to him. it torments me wen he flirts. even though i kno that its all inocent.(im figuring this because otherwise i would have to tear off my own head~or so i feel occasionaly). How do i get over this guy. no matter wat i try i seem to fall for him every time i see him. please help me. if u've been in teh same situation-how did u get out?!?.
help.

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christina
christina
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I say you move om !
 
lily
lily
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hey,
lifes hard and thiers always a guy to get in tha way my bf and i have been together for 7 months and about 2 weeks ago i found out he cheated on me 5 outta tha 7 months so guys r like tha devil i dont think any guy in the whole world can be tottaly honest with a girl trhier liers!! so gurl best thing to do is to try to be with him he act weird drop him and move one don't be affraid to be ur self after all the most attractive thing in tha world is honesty and personality let him see the real you..who knows it might GROW 2 be LoVe! good luck and im here u can catch me on AIM. at nobodysangel140
 
sheena
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Yeah I used to have a bf we been 2gether for a year and 7 months but
he was cheating on me we this girl
name Effie Dillon and she still
tries to fight me over him but
why would I fight over him i'm
done with him now,..
 
Leah
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you know what, I have to agree with lorie.. the best thing you can do is to move on. I think its important not to judge what people feel by their age. you feel what you feel, no limits. good luck, ive been there and know it hurts, as much as you find it hard, try your best to let go.
 
tiffany
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I went through the exact same thing about a year ago, so it's still quite fresh in my mind and in my heart how badly it can hurt. We were young and in love. And then one day he told me he didn't love me anymore. It broke my heart, and I told myself that he was lying, that he was just saying that so I would leave him alone. We still talked after that happened, and he would still say I love you, but then a week later he would be a jerk and not want anything to with me. It broke my heart every time, because I knew that he was just putting on a facade to please me. I stayed in denial until 6 months later he finally got the guts to tell me that there simply wasn't anything there anymore and that I HAD to move on. He stopped talking to me, he wouldn't have anything to do with me, he ignored me when I saw him. I knew he was serious this time, so I didn't talk to him. At first, it was wierd to not talk to him, because we had been best friends. But at the same time, there was this strange satisfaction with myself for being strong enough to not talk to the one person that had been breaking my heart repeatedly. It hurt. I won't lie. If there is one thing in life that is more hard to do than anything else, it is depriving yourself of the one thing that you want above all else. It took me about 6 months to move on to where I could date other people, and 9 months to where my heart didn't skip a beat when he walked in the room. It's been a year now and though I'm lonely....I'm happy. It's better to be alone than to be in a relationship where any and all feelings aren't reciprocated. My advice: tell the kid how you feel and tell him that you can't handle talking to him if he doesn't feel the same way. And then don't talk to him until you've moved on. How do you know when you've moved on? When every little thing doesn't remind you of him. When you realize that you haven't thought about him in weeks. When you don't mind that he has a girl on his arm that isn't you. That's how you know. Hopefully that helps.
 


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