I have learned you do have to set boundaries when it comes to relationships. I was with this one guy in college but I was with him in away I knew I shouldn't of been. To be blunt I was his late night special and I thought this was the only way I could be with him. I ended things with him off and on. It has been 7 months since I have last seen him b/c I moved home. Girls-in order to receive respect you have to respect yourself and love yourself b4 you can receive it. I am still learning and growing from expereinces. Take care of yourself first and then take care of those who love you for YOU all of YOU.