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I love him, but he doesnt care for me

Submitted by IzzI
E-mail: starberri772005@yahoo.com


I love this guy a lot. He sometimes acts as if he likes me, but then again he doesnt talk to me. On aol He doesnt even say Hi to me first! I always have to say hit to him. We have the same interests and everything. Im even hanging out with him tomarrow! again, he acts like he likes me, but he just like hes a playa. He leads me on, thinking that he likes me, but I dont even think he does. He says he doesnt know who he likes, but then again he puts a kissy face in his away messages at the bottom of his screen, like hes lying to me, or he doesnt want me to know who he likes. Its just so confusing. I cant even get him out of my head! Then again I dont want him to be out of my head. See, again confusing.. but, love is confusing..unfortunatly.

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Brooke
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you need to be straight forward with him or you are not going to get any answers. you need to tell him he is sending you mixed signals and that you would like to know which signal he is trying to send. good luck.
 
Mariah
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Well im sorry to hear this i think i would just let him go but if you like him alot do what brooke said..maybe it will work maybe it wont set him striaght tell him you dont like the way hes acting.
 
Sarah
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Ohmygod i have the same sort of problem. I totally love this guy who doesnt care about me, or seems like he doesnt. It sucks. But the best advice i can give you is to be straightforward with him. Tell him how you feel, get all your cards out on the table. Then its his choice to make a move or not. If he doesnt then move on. Your too good for a guy like that anyways
 
Bee
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ey thea....well i think u should jus let him go...or wat if u really love him then dont... i agree with brooke n mariah.... well hope u make the rite choice..well g2g now so tagg meeh bak arite... bai... bai...
 
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If you don't take this jive *ss sh*t off of this computer. If he won't talk to you find a nigga from where you live not of damn aol.
 
dani
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hello! m'dear! hope u dont get in too deep with this guy! but i no xsactly how u feel, im nearly 15 and i started speekin 2 one of my best guy frieds friend (if u no wot i mean 3months later we met and i rele like him hes so beautiful! and he make me feel so special, so wen he found out i like him i was v embaraced and felt that he was too gd 4 me... and then it got too much so i asked him how he felt about me and he sed he liked me but didnt want a gf so i was happy but felt as tho he was leadin me on =(. i kissed him (like a proper kiss =O)) on new years day and twice cince... but i also want to know wots goin 2 happen next and if he has feelings for any 1 else...why cant they just be straight with us...i understand how u feel and mayB we both have 2 be more demanding wen asking them questions...becasue we need answers!
hope all goes well! luv dani
 
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I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY AT MY SCHOOL, AND IT SEEMS LIKE HE LIKES ME, WELL ATLEAST IT DID. I CANT EVEN BEGIN TO DESCRIBE HOW MUCH I LIKE HIM, WHEN I SEE HIM, I GET THIS AMAZING FEELING. ANYWAY, LATELY ITS BEEN AS THOUGH, AS HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT ME AT ALL .. LIKE WE HARDLY EVEN TALK, AND TODAY WHEN WE WERE SUPPOSED TO HANG OUT, HE DIDNT WANT TO GO TO EAT SO, HE SAID HE WOULD WAIT FOR ME WITH HIS FRIENDS, AND THAT THEY WOULD CALL US WHEN TO MEET UP, BUT INSTEAD HIM AND SOME OTHER GUYS WENT TO SOME ONE'S HOUSE AND DIDNT EVEN TELL US. SO MY FRIEND AND I GAVE THEM A CALL AND SAID WE WERE LEAVING, AND HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK. IM SO UPSET... I LIKE HIM LIKE CRAZY, AND HE DOESNT SEEM TO SHOW ME THAT HE'S INTERESTED IN ME ANY MORE AT ALL ... WHAT CAN I DO TO GET HIM TO LIKE ME JUST AS I LIKE HIM?
PLEASE HELP ME!
 
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I know what u all r going through! This guy who i really like maybe even love told me that he likes me about 3 weeks ago. And before that we have ended up together at 3 other party's but have never gone out. so for 3 weekd we have been flirting and talking to each other every day. and then when we went to a party we ended up kissing alot and took it one stage further. After that he sent me a valentines text messsge twice and called me beautiful and over msn once again he wished me a happy valentines day. So i really and truly believed that he likes me. But a week later i havent spoken 2 him for 2 days and when i text him he either doesnt text me back or he texts me an hour later. I dont know if i am being paranoid. But i think most of us girls need the constant reassurance that a guy who we really like, likes us 2.
 
nisha
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I AM A 25 YEAR OLD FEMALE AND LIVING IN CALIFORNIA. I AM DATING THIS GUY WHO IS EXTREMELY "INDEPENDENT". WE BOTH HAVE VERY BUSY LIVES AND WHEN WE MEET AT MY PLACE AT THE END OF THE DAY, HE WANTS TO WATCH TV OR CHECK MAILS OR JUST SURF FOR HRS WHILE I WAIT FOR HIM TO COME AND TALK TO ME. I HAVE TRIED AGAIN AND AGAIN TO NOT CARE AND IGNORE IT BUT I HAVE FAILED. RESULT IS I AM ALWAYS LACKING IN SLEEP AND UNPRODUCTIVE AT WORK. LAST NIGHT HE DIDNT EVEN LET ME KISS HIM COZ "HE DIDNT FEE LIKE"! AM I OVERREACTING? OR IS THIS JUST NORMAL?
 
Carrie
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i dont think you are overreacting. i just think you need to shut off the tv and say "if you really like me, then you will want to hear what i have to say" and then you tell him. right now i am dealing with a kinda similar problem...i love this guy. we dated for 2 years and i broke up with him 4 times in those years. he wont get back with me again becuase he says he doesnt like me anymore and he is sick of the break-ups..but i tell him now that i really love him and would never break up with him again..i can see it in his eyes that he still cares for me..and i cry everynight from thinking he might get another gf. i love him more then anyone ever could...please help me
 
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HEY LADIES I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IS GOING ON I THOUGHT THIS WOULD NEVER HAPPEND TO ME I THOUGHT I WAS SO STRONG BUT I FELL FOR THIS GUY AND NOW HE HAS TOTALLY CONTROL I DONT REALLY KNOW THAT HE THINKS AND I TRY TO TELL MYSELF THAT I DONT CARE I JUST WANT HIM TO TELL ME IF HE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP OR NOT MY ADVICE IS STILL TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE WHILE THESE GUYS ARE TAKING THEIR SWEET TIME U MIGHT MEET SOME ELSE
 
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i like this guy and he liked me. when he was about to ask me out, he fell in LOVE with another grl. he told me about her. he said he loved her. i kno that i shouldnt interfere with him n her, but i want him to like me again. everytime i see him, my heart beatz really fast. it feels so awkward. i really like him, itz just that he doesnt like me like how he likes that other girl. how do i get over him?
 
Andrea
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I know how you feel and it isnt fun. We all go thru this. Just tell that guy what he'll be missing if he acts like that to you. Stand up for yourself and show him he doesnt own you.
 
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Im in love with a guy with mixed signals too!. this guy, micheal I really care about him. we used to work together and then we started to hand out, it was great he would send me txts saying I had a great time tonight but then I always do with you. I mean how does a girl take that!!!. not well I can tell you. then this week hes blowing me out, we arranged to meet he canceled and now hes not txted in ages. What is going on?. Should I just txt him and say I like him or leave it?. I dont want to blow it with him.
 
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I have a very big problem...or at least it seems like it. I am studying Musical Theatre and I was involved in a play htis year. Because of his intelligence and his sense of humor I started to really like the director. He is 22 and I am 18. I really liked him an di pretended not to but I couldnt stop thinking about him. But then I saw him flirting (or at least thats what it looked like) with this girl. I started to cry so bad as if he had been my boyfriend. I feel so stupid because I think I am fallin in love with him and I feel like it is a stupid crush. BUt then again I was so hurt when I saw him I felt like crying my life out. I think I was very upset also because he keeps on sending me signals. He always did, he touched my hand and he talked to me very closely he even seemed to be jealous when I was hugging one of my firends. But he never talks to me in msn and then he goes and flirts whith this girl. I though he was playing hard to get but now I dont know what to think! I am so upset I dont know what to do.
 
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HELP ME! There's this guy(one fo my best friends), who I am madly in love with. He found out, and he flirted with me and told me all this stuff that made me feel so good. But then he said all this stuff like he loved me, but turns out he was joking with me. This happened 5 times, and each time he would say ' by the way, im joking'. I know he's an *sshole, and I shouldnt have fallen for it so many times, but I really do think I love him. At school, he totally ignored me and went the opposite direction if he saw me coming, so in the end I had to tell him I didnt like him anymore, so he would actaully talk to me. Now he is going out with my *friend* (but she annoys the hell outta me and I dont really like her that much) but he loves this other girl. He really is a player, but I cant help loving him. Recently (while he was still dating my *friend*) he told me that he misses the old me, the one that was crazy about him, and that he wants her back, and that she is in his lovelist and he loves her.He also said that she had the coolest personality he had ever seen. I dont know what to do. This was on MSN, so I have no idea if he's telling the truth, or if he is just playing me again. I really love him, but he hurts me so badly. I cant talk to anyone about this, because all my friends get fed up with me talking about him the entire time. he is one of my best friends, and I really dont want to loose him, but he is driving me mad and im fed up of getting mixed signals.Please help!!!!!! What do I do?????
 
michelle
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I have had the same bf for a year. I love him allot and he says the same. I dont know wut to do cuz most of the time he treats me like he dosent care for me. the only time im with him is in his bedroom late at night and even thats not often. I get mixed up cuz at the same time if I say im goin to leave he will cry I mean cry. he will cry with me so I fell he dose love me but dont understand y he treats me the ways he dose. it is not a fun relationship and I just cant get the power to end it. he also has said real evil things to me. it seems like his friends and hustle movement r more important to him. he hurts me almost everyday and it is piling up. I know me dose care for me and wouldent cheat but he dosent care enough to keep me. I have to leave.
 
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Hey! I was reading your story. I just want to let you know that you should let him go. I know this is hard to hear. However, I am 25 and I have been messing around with this particular guy off and on for ten years. It still hasn't gone anywhere! I am the age now where all my friends are married and having children and I am still waiting for this guy to come around. I know he won't . If he really loved me he would have been with me a long time ago. It turns out he just wants sex from me. I kept hoping once all of his friends got married he would come around. He just finds new single friends. That is a guy for ya! I have wasted so much of my precious time with this guy and it really has drove me crazy. It is so bad now all that I think about is him. I don't even enjoy my friends anymore because I just wonder if he might call me. He normally does around one in the morning and wants to come over. I have had four serious boyfriends since I met this guy a long time ago and we all broke up because of this one guy. They found me cheating on them. I wish I would have stopped this fling a long time ago. It is only a fling because if he really liked me he would respect me more and the same in your situation. Good
 


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