Gurl if he don't understand u and respect u for that then hes not the right one...

hunny dont worry im a virgin too and i know how you feel. if he cant respect enough then maybe you shouldnt be together. all guys think about is sex. i get pressured all the time to do it, but thats not going to make me do it. stand tall. dont let anyone tell you what to f*cking do. im also not having sex til im freaking married!!!!

Hey sweetie i'm still a virgin and sometimes i fell the same way, but there are guys out there who are willing to wait with you and wait to your ready, and i know that for a fact. If your boyfriend isn't wlling to wait till your ready then he isn't for you

het there alex well i i have to wait is that if he really loved you and cared about you then he would really care about your decision not to get married and about hose people that are pressuring you then they are not really good friends but remember something baby girl always respect yourself and dont do anything you dont want to!!!!!!!!!

it is ok to be a virgin that is no big deal lison to your self and don't lson to what other ppl tell you b/c that is just going to get you in more trouble then you wanna be in at any time b/c you are you nobody else can run your life even if you wanted them to ok
good luck

sweety, why make him happy if its not ganna make you happy. You may not see it now but you will have more love and stronger feelings for another man that will make you happy and be willing to wait. Never doubt your second thoughts! hes not worth it girl!!

Gurl, dont let anyone pressure you into having sex it is great having your husband be your first and last hopefully and ask yourself this question:"Does he really like me or is he just using me to get what he wants?" you should really think about it before doing someething youre not to sure about. If he really likes you well then he should understand how you feel about that issue. You know what i mean??? and if hes the one thats meant for you believe me he will wait!! I married my husband when i was 21(virgin too)we dated since we were 14 years old both and he understood me, he never pressured me because he loved me. If you need any other advice e-mail me at dturtlebblz@aol.com loves ya-Dee<3

ok here is how it is i was aa vergin untill i was 20 years old. yes i no it is hard too deal with the pressher of friend and boy friend ,of corse it is hard and honestley it will get harder. exspecaly when you believe you love the guy or you lower your own standerds just to please him or keep him .it is not worth it . just remember what ever your desision is you haave to live with it the rest of your life so my advice too you on every desision you make is " dont do anything you will regret.honey you have to sleep with it at nighte no one elts but you".

Well.. I'm a 20 year old virgin, and I'm saving myself for marriage. I made a promise a long tim eago not only to myself, but to God that I was going to wait until marriage to have sex. I am now engaged, and my fiance is right with me on waiting until marriage. He has had sex before.. and he loves the idea of waiting for me to have sex for the first time on our wedding night. Just remember.. true Love waits. If the guy loves you, he will either marry you, or he will show that he doesn't love you by trying to force you to sleep with him before marriage. My sisters both had sex before marriage.. and they regret it. I've been lucky enough to watch them make mistakes, so I know 100% that waiting until marriage is the best thing! Just wait girly!!!!! I promise you that I'm not some ugly chick writing you about saving yourself til marriage. I'm 5 foot 10, and 120 pounds... trust me girl, any girl can wait until marriage no matter how pretty.. you remember that okay! just wait.. you'll never regret it.

hey.

Why dont u just do other things wit him, like a bit of oral. Im serious, your body is the hottest its ever gonna be in your lifetime right now and you dont wanna get out and show it off? Sex isnt scary and when its with someone you like its very nice, stopping yourself from having these feelings now is childish. Go on the pill, get your bloke and stick it in you. Get over it and stop being immature.

dont worry I have the same problem. im a virgin. I dont have a bf right now but im kind of seeing this guy and he is pushing me to have sex with me because he says he wants to by my first. I really dont want to because I want to wait until im married. but I dont know what to do. im just so cofused. its nice to know that there is someone out there that is like me. now I dont feel like im the only one. just do what your heart tells you. if your ready then do it if not then dont.

My advice to you is don't totally fall in love in a guy who wants to force you just to have sex. If he really loves you, he should understand and respect you and your decision. Don't give up your virginity to him so easy until you're not married. He may think that your cheap and easy to get. But if you're sure that your guy is serious to you and really loves you, and ready to marry you, if you don't have doubt about him, and if you truly love each other, and if there's love, understanding, trust and respect in your relationship, so be it. I think you're both consenting adults and know what to do. I hope my advice can help you. Goodluck!