Ladies I need you to respond as quickly as possible. I want to leave but at the same time I want to stay. It's four (4) long long long long years. He only been married for a year. He told me the reason for him not telling me because he didn't want to loose or hurt me. I love him and I really don't want him to leave , but I CAN'T TAKE BEING HURT AGAIN. Ladies tell me what to do. If you were in my shoes what would you do. I'm sick of waiting. I don't some things to him, but it was nothing compaired to what he's doing now. I'm not married, I don't live with nobody. I just want to be with him. Every weekend we are together. Weekends not enough for me. I need weekdays and weekends.